Do’s and Don’ts in NC Divorce

  • Custody and Other Parental Issues
    DO’s DO find ways to support your children in a legal family process. Try to see things from their prospective and make them feel as secure as possible. DO be calm and respectful to your ex-spouse in front of your children. DO make your children feel comfortable, secure and at home in your living space…
  • Legal Issues
    DO’s DO keep records and document anything that you think might be important. Make notes of dates, phone conversations and other events. DO keep a journal for your attorney. Memory can fail you especially during trying times. If you designate it as “Notes for My Attorney,” it is protected by attorney-client privilege and generally cannot…
  • Emotional Issues
    DO’s DO understand that if you’re feeling sad, angry, anxious, lost or helpless, you are experiencing the normal emotions most people have when going through a divorce, custody battle or other family legal issue. DO seek help from a qualified counselor if you feel you need help with emotional distress. Also seek support from friends…