DO's DO find ways to support your children in a legal family process. Try to see things from their prospective and make them feel as secure as possible. DO be calm and respectful to your ex-spouse in front of your children. DO make your children feel comfortable, secure and at home in your living space if you are the parent who moves into separate quarters. Also take steps to make them feel...

DO's DO keep records and document anything that you think might be important. Make notes of dates, phone conversations and other events. DO keep a journal for your attorney. Memory can fail you especially during trying times. If you designate it as “Notes for My Attorney,” it is protected by attorney-client privilege and generally cannot be discoverable by the other side. Record incidents...

DO's DO understand that if you’re feeling sad, angry, anxious, lost or helpless, you are experiencing the normal emotions most people have when going through a divorce, custody battle or other family legal issue. DO seek help from a qualified counselor if you feel you need help with emotional distress. Also seek support from friends and family. When family break-ups or disagreements become...